Ramblings of a Wandering Luney

What I really want to say is...

Our group has changed recently. We were growing together, but something has changed. Why is it, that after one of us has been acting strange or having a bad day, we don't bother calling them the next day to see if they're alright. Why do we not ask the tough questions like we use to? If one of us didn't show up tomorrow, would anyone call? Are we truely seeking after eachother, truely wanting to get involved in eachothers' lives no matter how messy, or are we content to stay in what we're got now? We've become comfortable around eachother, and now we're content to stay stagnant. We are real enough to make our relationships seem deep and to actually be deeper than most friendships, but we hve stop trying to go deeper an become closer. When we have conversations heart to heart now, its talking about how we can fix problems around us, not how we're truely doing deep down. How many times do we ask eachother how are you doing spiritually? What are you struggling with truely? When everything is quiet, what's been on your mind?
Maybe I'm the only one who feels this way or feels like we've fallen into this. Maybe its just me...